Comments on: VII. Pedestal Patty(s) http://thismayconcernyou.com/2009/05/31/vii-pedestal-pattys/ These are self-medicating open letters Wed, 08 Sep 2010 00:08:30 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.com/ By: Damon http://thismayconcernyou.com/2009/05/31/vii-pedestal-pattys/#comment-5617 Damon Tue, 21 Jul 2009 19:29:50 +0000 http://thismayconcernyou.com/?p=2487#comment-5617 @bellydancer: Why don't you use a real e-mail address so I can explain to you the simple concept of not being better than anyone else. That's clearly all I'm saying ... It would have been no different had I said Abraham ... @bellydancer:

Why don’t you use a real e-mail address so I can explain to you the simple concept of not being better than anyone else.

That’s clearly all I’m saying … It would have been no different had I said Abraham …

]]> By: bellydancer http://thismayconcernyou.com/2009/05/31/vii-pedestal-pattys/#comment-5616 bellydancer Tue, 21 Jul 2009 19:12:03 +0000 http://thismayconcernyou.com/?p=2487#comment-5616 "You waste the time and money of guys whom you have no sincere interest in dating. Why waste your and his time allowing him to trick off his paycheck on you when he has no hope? That’s stupid — and how you end up on your nightly news. " See that's what happens to men when they chase and not court and why every women should arm herself against silly as niggas who try to put them on the nightly news. “You waste the time and money of guys whom you have no sincere interest in dating. Why waste your and his time allowing him to trick off his paycheck on you when he has no hope? That’s stupid — and how you end up on your nightly news. ”

See that’s what happens to men when they chase and not court and why every women should arm herself against silly as niggas who try to put them on the nightly news.

]]> By: bellydancer http://thismayconcernyou.com/2009/05/31/vii-pedestal-pattys/#comment-5615 bellydancer Tue, 21 Jul 2009 19:09:25 +0000 http://thismayconcernyou.com/?p=2487#comment-5615 "Face it, you’re just as flawed as any man you choose to date or look down upon. You’re no better than the 29-year-old guy with 21 kids and a minimum-wage gig. Yes, you’d be a fool to date/sleep with him, but you’re not better than him. To think/verbalize that you are, shows just how hollow you are. Gents see it — your shady hollowness. Again, that’s when men decide to chase, not court." WTF does this degenrate have to do with black women and their choices in men. Really you were reaching on this statement sorry to break up the dick sucking party that all the other posters seem intent on giving you but that was a dumb ass statment. “Face it, you’re just as flawed as any man you choose to date or look down upon. You’re no better than the 29-year-old guy with 21 kids and a minimum-wage gig. Yes, you’d be a fool to date/sleep with him, but you’re not better than him. To think/verbalize that you are, shows just how hollow you are. Gents see it — your shady hollowness. Again, that’s when men decide to chase, not court.”

WTF does this degenrate have to do with black women and their choices in men. Really you were reaching on this statement sorry to break up the dick sucking party that all the other posters seem intent on giving you but that was a dumb ass statment.

]]> By: j.o. http://thismayconcernyou.com/2009/05/31/vii-pedestal-pattys/#comment-3100 j.o. Thu, 04 Jun 2009 21:14:22 +0000 http://thismayconcernyou.com/?p=2487#comment-3100 snap, snap. speak the truth damon and i love the peppermint patty reference! snap, snap. speak the truth damon and i love the peppermint patty reference!

]]> By: doJo http://thismayconcernyou.com/2009/05/31/vii-pedestal-pattys/#comment-2949 doJo Tue, 02 Jun 2009 04:09:54 +0000 http://thismayconcernyou.com/?p=2487#comment-2949 on point letter as usual, yo. if this letter was written two years ago, i would've sent it to my best friends. Lawd KNOWS they all needed it back then. ...you know what...i'm sendin' this ish anyways. on point letter as usual, yo.
if this letter was written two years ago, i would’ve sent it to my best friends. Lawd KNOWS they all needed it back then.

…you know what…i’m sendin’ this ish anyways.

]]> By: Damon http://thismayconcernyou.com/2009/05/31/vii-pedestal-pattys/#comment-2934 Damon Mon, 01 Jun 2009 19:56:28 +0000 http://thismayconcernyou.com/?p=2487#comment-2934 "I will agree that sometimes women do mask personal issues with “IM JUST NOT READY YET” or “THEY ALL SUCK”." @comeback: They mask it with that or by dating the guy they know has no chance in hell or the guy they like but is only stringing them along .... But then want to step up on the pedestal. That's Patty in her finest hours. “I will agree that sometimes women do mask personal issues with “IM JUST NOT READY YET” or “THEY ALL SUCK”.”

@comeback:

They mask it with that or by dating the guy they know has no chance in hell or the guy they like but is only stringing them along ….

But then want to step up on the pedestal. That’s Patty in her finest hours.

]]> By: thecomebackgirl http://thismayconcernyou.com/2009/05/31/vii-pedestal-pattys/#comment-2933 thecomebackgirl Mon, 01 Jun 2009 19:48:49 +0000 http://thismayconcernyou.com/?p=2487#comment-2933 "NO relationship ends just because of one person. Takes 2 to tango at ALL times" I agree with this wholeheartedly!!! I don't really think the issue to most men's point is necessarily about the lack of "GOOD" Single partners. I do think the issue is finding the RIGHT lid for your pot. Whats good for some may not be right for others, there are varying communication styles, passions, hobbies, preferences etc. I will agree that sometimes women do mask personal issues with "IM JUST NOT READY YET" or "THEY ALL SUCK". “NO relationship ends just because of one person. Takes 2 to tango at ALL times”

I agree with this wholeheartedly!!!

I don’t really think the issue to most men’s point is necessarily about the lack of “GOOD” Single partners. I do think the issue is finding the RIGHT lid for your pot. Whats good for some may not be right for others, there are varying communication styles, passions, hobbies, preferences etc.

I will agree that sometimes women do mask personal issues with “IM JUST NOT READY YET” or “THEY ALL SUCK”.

]]> By: thecomebackgirl http://thismayconcernyou.com/2009/05/31/vii-pedestal-pattys/#comment-2932 thecomebackgirl Mon, 01 Jun 2009 19:48:48 +0000 http://thismayconcernyou.com/?p=2487#comment-2932 "NO relationship ends just because of one person. Takes 2 to tango at ALL times" I agree with this wholeheartedly!!! I don't really think the issue to most men's point is necessarily about the lack of "GOOD" Single partners. I do think the issue is finding the RIGHT lid for your pot. Whats good for some may not be right for others, there are varying communication styles, passions, hobbies, preferences etc. I will agree that sometimes women do mask personal issues with "IM JUST NOT READY YET" or "THEY ALL SUCK". “NO relationship ends just because of one person. Takes 2 to tango at ALL times”

I agree with this wholeheartedly!!!

I don’t really think the issue to most men’s point is necessarily about the lack of “GOOD” Single partners. I do think the issue is finding the RIGHT lid for your pot. Whats good for some may not be right for others, there are varying communication styles, passions, hobbies, preferences etc.

I will agree that sometimes women do mask personal issues with “IM JUST NOT READY YET” or “THEY ALL SUCK”.

]]> By: V.E.G. http://thismayconcernyou.com/2009/05/31/vii-pedestal-pattys/#comment-2931 V.E.G. Mon, 01 Jun 2009 19:42:47 +0000 http://thismayconcernyou.com/?p=2487#comment-2931 Very well said; slow clap! Very well said; slow clap!

]]> By: thecomebackgirl http://thismayconcernyou.com/2009/05/31/vii-pedestal-pattys/#comment-2930 thecomebackgirl Mon, 01 Jun 2009 19:38:31 +0000 http://thismayconcernyou.com/?p=2487#comment-2930 "WERE married or otherwise committed." after a few years. “WERE married or otherwise committed.”

after a few years.

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